Caring for yourself is a meaningful part of moving toward healing.

Looking After Yourself

Self‑care is any intentional step you take to look after your physical, emotional, or mental well-being. It’s a vital part of healing, and it isn’t selfish – it’s necessary.

Here are some accessible suggestions that take a whole‑person approach, which can help your emotional, physical, and wider well-being.

Mind

Supporting your emotional world and helping you find steadiness in how you feel.

  • Meditation or journalling: Gentle ways to process thoughts and emotions.
  • Breathing and grounding exercises: Simple practices to steady your body and mind.
  • Gardening or plant care: Calming, sensory activities that offer focus.
  • Setting boundaries with others:Protecting your emotional space and energy.
Body

Tend to your physical wellbeing in ways that feel manageable and supportive.

  • Consuming enough water: Aim for around 2 liters daily to support overall wellbeing.
  • Light, regular movement: Walking, yoga, or stretching can gently energise your body.
  • Consistent sleep: Try to get 6–8 hours to help your body restore.
  • Nourishing food: Eating in ways that support your immune system through stressful times.
Social

It’s important, where possible, to nurture connection, community, and supportive relationships.

  • Regular catch‑ups with loved ones: Staying connected in ways that feel supportive.
  • Joining a local club: Be it books, sports, music, or any group that brings connection.
  • Volunteering: Offering your time in ways that build community can give you a feeling of purpose.
Spirit

Connect with meaning, hope, and the things that can give you a sense of purpose.

  • Reflecting on personal values: Take a moment to connect with what matters to you.
  • Keeping a gratitude journal: Acknowledging even small acts of appreciation can help you feel lighter.
  • Finding glimmers in your day: In difficult moments, try to pause to find the positive
Self-compassion exercise

When you feel overwhelmed or experience spiraling negative thoughts, take a breath and then repeat the following to yourself three times while gently caressing the back of your left hand with your right hand:

“This is a moment of suffering. Suffering is a part of life. May I be kind to myself.”

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